God Blesses His Road

Fair Warning: The thoughts expressed in this blog initially were intended for a wider audience yet over time I’ve grown to have a much stronger motivation to write more often and hopefully better if the audience is very simply my kids. I think this will help sharpen my focus and truly share something that is on my heart all of the time. Plus, I can leave a series of notes to them on faith & life..at least from their Dad’s perspective.

Kids,

You will hear many messages from our extraordinary culture. There are many good ones and many bad ones – you will learn over time that our culture tugs at you in many different directions but one consistent direction is away from God. It’s all part of a very secular culture that we should not expect to live up to Christian values. It’s ok. We knew it would be with this way and will only continue to devolve in that direction. One of the places you will hear these messages is in music: some is very good and some is very bad. Many artists are very talented and they either write their own songs or sing songs from other professionals. In either case there is one inescapable fact – a worldview is being promoted. You see, everyone has a worldview; there’s no getting around it. Our worldview is shaped by our upbringing, environment, education and religious or irreligious values. Because we believe God is the beginning and the end and the center of all things; if we were to boil it down to its essence we might say everyone has a Theology. So a person writing lyrics for a song will express some kind of ‘theology’ in their work – their worldview is on display if we read their lyrics and listen for it closely.

Here’s one example that I’ve been hearing on the radio lately.

The first stanza is by Matt Maher, a Christian artist (and Catholic) who sings a song Turn Around (written by Rhys Morgan, Stuart Creighton, Tommy Lee James). He gave an interview where he spoke about the need for repentance and how it is not a one-time thing but a continual thing we do throughout our entire lives. In the lyrics he also reminds us that following Christ is all about repentance: literally to change the way you think, to change direction.

If you’re scared that you don’t matter
If you’re lost and need to be found
If you’re looking for a Savior
All you gotta do is turn around

No one listens to you anymore
And your heart has broken down, you don’t need to move
Love has come to you, all you gotta do is turn around
All you gotta do is turn around, turn around

You don’t have to
Take the broken road
You can turn around
And come back home

A helpful contrast to this idea and a very nuanced one is a song sung by several artists, including a very popular Country Music (ahem, the “new” pop-style Country Music) band called Rascal Flatts. The song was co-written by Marcus Hummon, Bobby Boyd and Jeff Hanna in 1994. In their lyrics they describe repentance and redemption a little differently.

I think about the years I spent just passing through
I’d like to have the time I lost and give it back to you
But you just smile and take my hand
You’ve been there you understand
It’s all part of a grander plan that is coming true

Now I’m just rolling home
Into my lover’s arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you

You see, if we take these lyrics to heart we might be deceived into believing that God “blesses” the broken road of sin and disobedience ultimately deciding to bless us. In fact, God tells us He redeems all things but he still disapproves of that broken road and tells us to repent and change directions. We should always remember that broken roads don’t lead to God – they lead us away from Him. That’s why they’re broken and that’s why He tells us to take the narrow path that leads to Him and not the broad road, that leads to destruction.

Your Mom and I have led our family into a more confessional and sacramental expression of Christianity in the Catholic Church. If you will regularly confess to the Priest (which means, “to agree with God about sin”) and do your penance you will be reminded continually of your need to confess, repent, and be sanctified by God’s Amazing Grace in Christ.  God doesn’t bless any broken roads and they don’t lead straight to Him. You don’t have to take the broken road, you can turn around and come back home.

Love,

Dad

P.S. Rascal Flatts’ theology is wrong but their songs are generally good and I like them even though it’s a new pop-style Country Music that sometimes hurts your father’s Oklahoma ears.

Celebrating Christmas

Gari Melchers, The Nativity, c. 1891

Gari Melchers, The Nativity, c. 1891

From December 2 to January 13 Roman Catholics celebrate the birth of Christ the Savior. It is a true celebration coloring every aspect of Church life and offering every Catholic the opportunity to rejoice in Jesus’ birth. It is rich with meaning and full of worship. If there’s a war on Christmas it’s not happening in the Catholic Church and if it’s happening in the world it’s not affecting the Catholic Church either that I’ve seen. Christmas is alive and well and it’s all about God keeping His promise. Stephanie and I have thoroughly enjoyed celebrating every aspect of the Gospel message at every Mass and it has ministered to my family and me in surprising ways. It actually all begins at the Feast of the Annunciation on 25 March, nine full months before Christmas, the birthday of Jesus, commemorating the announcement by the angel Gabriel to the Virgin Mary that she would conceive and become the mother of Jesus, the Son of God, marking his Incarnation (Luke 1:26-38). We are reminded of Mary’s amazing faith to accept this gift to deliver The Deliverer. Joseph, also with the benefit of some heavenly counsel from an angel, agreed to stay with Mary and love her, raise Jesus and provide for them.

angels-shepherdsThe Christmas message itself is pregnant with meaning and worthy of our celebration. It’s about an extraordinary child whose life makes it about so much more. It reminds us God is working His plan while man is working his plan. One example of that is the discovery of Jesus’ birth and the attempt to destroy any challenge to Herod’s rule through the Massacre of the Innocents, infanticide and gendercide by Herod the Great himself, the Roman appointed King of the Jews. God likewise intended to destroy any challenge to His own rule.  An angel appears to Joseph and warns Joseph to take newborn Jesus and his mother into Egypt (Matthew 2:13). The Scriptural account is full of angelic visits delivering messages from God to Mary, Joseph, the Shepherds, and more. God is always working, never silent and showing himself fully trustworthy in all things. This has always been the case and always will be the case.

Did you know the crucifixion of Jesus was foretold in Psalm 22:16-18 approximately 1,000 years before Christ was born, long before this method of execution was even practiced?  Scholars note there are more than 300 prophetic Scriptures completed in the life of Jesus alone. Additionally, there are at least 44 messianic predictions clearly fulfilled in Jesus Christ. You can see them along with supporting references from the Old and New Testament here. It’s no coincidence and with God there are none.

This Christmas if we’ll embrace God’s version of the complete Christmas story we’ll be quickly reminded how God stepped into world in the form of a child born to be a Savior to rescue His people from sin and give peace, joy and hope to all mankind who trust Him by faith. This is worthy of our celebration and not just our observance. Everything else including all other “stories” pale in comparison.

Merry Christmas to you all and may God bless you in 2013!

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World War II & The Mighty Men of Metz

Vincent and Maggie Jo Goodspeed on March 25th, 1944. Months later Papa would deploy to Europe to help defeat the Nazis and give Europe back their freedom.

A lot of us have kids back home, or hope to have later on, and those kids are going to know about the 95th and the part it played in cleaning up this mess. They’ll know what the 95th has done for them and be just as proud of the outfit as I am. And that’s tops.

We aren’t joking any more about that nickname, “Victory Division.” We think we’re proving it. The next job? I don’t know what it will be, but I’ll bet a million to one that the 95th does it wholehog. That’s the kind of division we have, that’s the kind of leaders we have, that’s the kind of fighters this outfit has — “Bravest of the brave.”

- US Army 95th Division soldier writing home on his first Christmas in combat

Hope & Prayers of a Nation

Supreme Commander of the Allied Expeditionary Forces General Dwight D. Eisenhower sent a message to the troops on June 6th, 1944. There was a full moon that night with suitable illumination for a land invasion to liberate the people of France from the tyrannical grip of the German Nazis. France indeed all of Europe needed our help and it was time to stop Hitler’s evil, murderous advances all over Europe.

“Soldiers, sailors and airmen of the Allied Expeditionary Force. You are about to embark upon the great crusade, toward which we have striven these many months. The eyes of the world are upon you. The hope and prayers of liberty-loving people everywhere march with you.” — Dwight D. Eisenhower, June 6, 1944

Today our country commemorates that extraordinary day that a bunch of our bravest men landed on the beaches of France and kicked off the war in Europe unintentionally solidifying their place in history as the Greatest Generation. They beat back the Germans, liberated towns and endured massive casualties to achieve for the people of Europe a victory they could not achieve for themselves without our help.

My grandfather Vincent Goodspeed fought in World War II. He was a soldier in the 95th Infantry Division. The 95th Infantry Division suffered 6,370 combat casualties in 151 days of heavy fighting in Nazi-occupied Europe, more than 72 percent of the unit’s strength. The 95th ID was renowned for fighting back fierce German counterattacks so much so the division earned the nickname “Iron Men of Metz“, a title given to them by General Kittel, the German fortress commander of Metz whose forces were defeated by the 95th ID. The frosting on the Metz cake was the capture of Lt. Gen. Heinrich Kittel, Commander of the 462nd Volksgrenadier Division and of the Metz Fortress.1

At 1435 on the afternoon of 22 November 1 944, Maj. Gen. Walton H. Walker reported to Lt. Gen. Patton that Metz was completely secured. It was during the battle for Metz that war correspondents nicknamed the men of the 95th “The Bravest of the Brave”.

Unfortunately for my Papa, while liberating the towns and fighting the Nazis he was actually captured by the Germans and held as a POW along with some other soldiers. Equally unfortunate for the Germans was their decision to hold him in captivity somewhere near the battlefield. According to the Defense Department document of the incident Papa escaped their detention facility and removed the boots of dead soldiers to give to the officers (officers and enlisted were held separately) then they all broke out of captivity and rejoined their unit. I don’t know if they sneaked out of the camp or shot their captors but I know they got out and we all won. Eventually Papa joined the newly begun United States Air Force and rose to the highest enlisted rank, Chief Master Sergeant–a fact that played a major role in my own decision to join the Air Force and get a commission while in college.

The D-Day invasion is a great day for the US, Allied Forces, France and all of Europe to commemorate the day that the members of our Greatest Generation put on their boots and went to Europe give them back their liberty. Is it worth it? Are we empire building when we step in to defeat tyranny and establish liberty?

Hope for Peace or Fight for Liberty?

At the World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland on January 26, 2003, General Colin Powell defended the U.S. government’s position that the use of military force against Saddam Hussein, unilateral or otherwise, was not only justified but necessary if the complete disarmament of Iraq could not be achieved by other means.In a question-and-answer session afterwards (during which the phrase “empire building” was never mentioned, incidentally), the secretary of state was asked by former Archbishop of Canterbury George Carey if he felt the U.S and its allies had given due consideration to the use of “soft power” — promulgating moral and democratic values as a means of achieving progress towards international peace and stability, basically — versus the “hard power” of military force.

Here, in part, is how Colin Powell actually responded to Carey’s question:

There is nothing in American experience or in American political life or in our culture that suggests we want to use hard power. But what we have found over the decades is that unless you do have hard power — and here I think you’re referring to military power — then sometimes you are faced with situations that you can’t deal with.I mean, it was not soft power that freed Europe. It was hard power. And what followed immediately after hard power? Did the United States ask for dominion over a single nation in Europe? No. Soft power came in the Marshall Plan. Soft power came with American GIs who put their weapons down once the war was over and helped all those nations rebuild. We did the same thing in Japan.

So our record of living our values and letting our values be an inspiration to others I think is clear. And I don’t think I have anything to be ashamed of or apologize for with respect to what America has done for the world. [Applause.]
We have gone forth from our shores repeatedly over the last hundred years and we’ve done this as recently as the last year in Afghanistan and put wonderful young men and women at risk, many of whom have lost their lives, and we have asked for nothing except enough ground to bury them in, and otherwise we have returned home to seek our own, you know, to seek our own lives in peace, to live our own lives in peace. But there comes a time when soft power or talking with evil will not work where, unfortunately, hard power is the only thing that works.

Continuing the same line of thought in a different forum, Powell has also said:

Far from being the Great Satan, I would say that we are the Great Protector. We have sent men and women from the armed forces of the United States to other parts of the world throughout the past century to put down oppression. We defeated Fascism. We defeated Communism. We saved Europe in World War I and World War II. We were willing to do it, glad to do it. We went to Korea. We went to Vietnam. All in the interest of preserving the rights of people.And when all those conflicts were over, what did we do? Did we stay and conquer? Did we say, “Okay, we defeated Germany. Now Germany belongs to us? We defeated Japan, so Japan belongs to us”? No. What did we do? We built them up. We gave them democratic systems which they have embraced totally to their soul. And did we ask for any land? No, the only land we ever asked for was enough land to bury our dead. And that is the kind of nation we are.2

Let’s all take a moment to reflect upon their contributions and remember them when we feel the least bit tired and weary in our battle for freedom here and around the world. The Iron Men of Metz wouldn’t quit!

Happy Birthday, Benjamin

ImageLast May 2011 Stephanie and I went to the hospital for the arrival of our 4th child, Benjamin Pierce Goodspeed. Our little Benjammin has been rockin our world ever since!

Believe me when I say our worlds were rocked. For many parents of Down syndrome children they are aware of some kind of anomaly in the ultrasound. But many are not and our little Benjamin did not show any signs during his ultrasound exams and we turned down the pre-screening since it has false positives, can be dangerous for the child and wouldn’t change any decision of ours anyway. So, we were shocked when he was born and the Dr. told us he has Down syndrome.

God, in His infinite wisdom, chose to orchestrate this little miracle in our lives to demonstrate even more of His glory than he could have without him. That’s my God, every time. Always showing up, being faithful and delivering big in ways that never cease to amaze us.

His plan is perfect. It breaks you in all the right ways and leaves you whole in all the right ways. It makes you pray more about things that really matter. It makes you love God more, want to follow Christ more and draws the whole family closer together.

Still God shocks us with His plan sometimes and when the shock draws our eyes toward Him we find ourselves in awe of Him. Jesus had that same impact on everyone around him—including me. By the way, if you’re willing to lose your life, you can follow Him.

  • We are in awe at how much Benjamin has drawn our already very close family together. Honestly that is not an area any of us felt a deficit but we know now we are far closer as a family with our little champ among us.
  • We are in awe at how much the children love on Benjamin. To them, he is no different – he is Benjamin and they love him unconditionally.
  • We are also in awe at how well Benjamin is growing up. He may be a little slower on walking and talking developmentally but he is very strong, aware, and curious about everything like every little guy. He’ll do everything in his own timing.
  • We are continually in awe at the response from family and friends who have made our family the object of their prayers, love, support and encouragement. The truth is all parents need plenty of encouragement—parenting is the toughest job going. I guess that’s why people sometimes quit doing it.

We also know we may have more challenges ahead. Who doesn’t? We’ll be ready for them and God will step in like He always does. He’s done it every time and I’ve got to quit being shocked by it at some point.

So, Happy Birthday Benjamin…thanks for rocking our world, champ!

6-Year-Old Boy Walks to His U.S. Marine Father for the First Time

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=LqPlBy2-abA

“When my husband left on his deployment, our 6-year-old son could not walk on his own. He has cerebral palsy. Doctors originally said that he would never walk or do much of anything. While daddy was away, he learned to walk. For his homecoming, we set it up for Michael to walk to his daddy for the first time ever! We kept the fact that he could walk a secret the whole time his dad was gone!”

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